Consultations & Workshops

Consultations & Workshops

For organizations, educators, clinicians, and communities ready to go deeper.

This work is for the people building, teaching, and holding space for others and who want to do it with more nuance, more honesty, and a clearer understanding of how trauma, power, and relationships actually operate. Whether you're a clinical team looking to expand your lens, an educator navigating relational complexity in your community, a grassroots organization serving people in non-traditional relationship structures, or a group that just knows something is missing from the training you've had — this is where we can start.

Workshops and consultations are available as standalone sessions or as an ongoing series, and can be delivered virtually or in person to clinical, organizational, and community audiences.

What We Can Explore Together

For Clinicians & Practitioners

Most training programs offer very little on non-monogamy, and even less on what it looks like when trauma and attachment are also in the room. These sessions are for therapists, social workers, and counsellors who want to work with non-monogamous and polyamorous clients competently.

We can dig into how to hold relational structures you weren't trained for, how to spot coercive control in systems where it's easy to miss, how attachment and trauma behave differently across multiple relationships, and how your own assumptions about "healthy" relationships might be shaping your clinical lens without you realizing it.

On Digital Violence

The internet has created entirely new landscapes for violence, surveillance, exposure, public shaming, non-consensual sharing of private information, and the particular cruelty of being made into content without your consent. This work draws on years of navigating these dynamics publicly and supporting people through them privately. It's useful for organizations working in gender-based violence, online safety, community health, and anyone trying to understand how violence travels digitally and what support can actually look like.

Race, anti-Black racism and relational power

Race shapes how people experience safety, intimacy, belonging, and recognition but most clinical and organizational training treats it as a separate topic rather than something woven into the fabric of everyday relationships.

These sessions take a different approach. We look at how racial hierarchy actually operates inside families, partnerships, institutions, and communities, how it shapes conflict, who gets believed, who gets care, and what belonging costs.

This work is well-suited for clinical teams, educators, and organizations ready to move past surface level diversity training toward something more grounded and relational.

Topics may include anti-Black racism in clinical and institutional settings, racial power dynamics in intimate relationships, belonging and conditional inclusion, intergenerational trauma in immigrant and diasporic families, race and credibility in abuse disclosure, navigating predominantly white institutions, and racialized experiences of care and neglect.

Relational Abuse in Non-Traditional Structures

Coercive control and relational abuse don't disappear in polyamorous, queer, or chosen-family systems they just become harder to name, and harder for helpers to see. These sessions are for practitioners and organizations who want to get better at identifying and responding to abuse in contexts where the usual frameworks don't quite fit.

Trauma-Informed Approaches to Non-Monogamy

Non-monogamy sits at the intersection of structure, vulnerability, and intimacy and trauma doesn't pause for any of it. These workshops explore how trauma shapes the particular challenges that come up in multi-partner systems: jealousy, hierarchy, access, agreements, and the moments when it feels like the sky is falling.

Boundaries, Agreements & Relational Design

For communities, organizations, and groups who want practical tools , not just concepts. This work moves beyond platitudes about boundaries into something people can actually use: how to design agreements that hold, how to renegotiate without rupture, and how to build relational cultures that are honest about power.

Custom & Community Workshops

If something you need isn't listed here, that doesn't mean it isn't possible. Many of the best sessions start with a conversation about what a specific group is actually struggling with. Reach out and we'll figure out together whether this is a good fit.

Format & Series Options

Workshops can be delivered as a single focused session or as a multi-part series which works especially well for clinical teams, training programs, and organizations wanting to build sustained capacity over time rather than check a box. Series are designed collaboratively based on your group's goals, size, and context.

Rates

Rates vary based on scope, format, and duration. Sliding-scale options are available for grassroots and community-based organizations.

These offerings are educational and consultative in nature and do not constitute psychotherapy.